Love is not words. Love is not black and white. Love is not what you write on a piece of paper. Neither when you text her 'I love you'. Nor when you said it to her on the phone. Love is the feeling. Your feeling towards her. The feeling only you know. Love is action. The things you do to make her feel what you feel. Love should make her happy. Make her smile. Make her feel contented. Not the other way around.